For the last 2 1/2 years I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful man however at the end of the day we found we were not right for each other. Everyone talks about how difficult dating in Los Angeles is however I have never had a problem dating when I was in a healthy confident mindset.
When you feel confident, love yourself and your body, you draw people to you instead of having to go out looking for someone. Not everyone you attract will be a person you want to date however having choices effortlessly is always a good thing!
I have only been single for 6 weeks at the time of writing this. Most of the six weeks I have been focused on business and redoing my apartment so I haven’t really been out much.
Despite being in my apartment most of the time, I managed to attract two men without any concerted effort. I met both of them out, one while I was walking to the Post Office for mail and the other while I was on my AM walk with a friend of mine.
I wasn’t dressed up either time and I had NO makeup on. I was just being myself, enjoying the day, walking confidently.
Tips to being attractive to others and drawing people to you:
- You need to feel comfortable and confident in your body at all times.
- Enjoy whatever it is you are doing and people will notice.
- SMILE. Smile and say “hello” to people you pass. Watching their whole demeanor change will make you feel good.
It’s easy if you allow it to be. The idea is to be a magnet by putting positive energy out in all that you do and everyone you come in contact with!
XOXO Bonnie Gayle